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EastEnders’ Sid Owen is the ‘happiest he’s ever been’ since finding love with restaurant worker he met 23 years ago


EASTENDERS legend Sid Owen has found love with a restaurant worker he first met 23 years ago – and says he’s the “happiest he’s ever been“.

Popular Sid, 49, who played dopey mechanic Ricky Butcher, had three stints in the soap and was last seen in 2012.

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Sid Owen has finally found lasting love with restaurant worker Amanda[/caption]

His character wed fiery Bianca Jackson (actress Patsy Palmer)  who famously screamed “Rickaay!” on a regular basis. 

Off-screen, Sid has been engaged twice. First to dancer Carty Hubbard, 41,   in 2000, then to TV host Polly Parsons, 37.

Their relationship ended after six years in 2012 and she is now wed to  footballer Thomas Vermaelen, once of Sid’s favourite team Arsenal.

The actor, who lives near Tower Bridge in London, has now found love with restaurant worker Victoria.

In an exclusive interview with The Sun, Sid said: “We first dated 23 years ago, and have been dating for the last year.

“It’s the happiest I’ve ever been. I’m finally settling down.”

The soap star has today told of his incredible drug-fuelled showbiz life —  including wild sex in a Tesco toilet.

In a searingly honest chat, the EastEnders actor, 49, says he needed rehab to beat a £200-a-night cocaine habit,  admitting: “My job meant more than going out and getting off my face.”

Yet Sid insists of his womanising days: “I’ve  no regrets, not even  sex in Tesco.”

He added: “Growing up in that environment  with no parents and all that, you’re bound to go through mental health issues.

“The only thing that keeps me sane is fitness. And trying to be good to people.”

Sid’s autobiography From Rags to Ricky is  serialised in The Sun from Monday.

The star, a soap regular from the age of 16,  once admitted snorting up to 20 lines of cocaine a day as his fame soared.

In the book he reveals: “It’s recreational  then all of a sudden it’s like, ‘Hang on, I’ve got to get through  pages of scripts, and then go to work’.

“You think you can do it and get away with it. I thought I could juggle the two, but I soon realised it was a silly idea.”

In the 1990s he was snorting as much as £200 of the drug a night.

He once drove to the  studios “coked up to my eyeballs and way over the drink-drive limit’’.

Sid beat the drug with professional help and  “lots of therapy”, adding: “It worked. Drugs are a life experience that luckily I’ve put behind me.”

Asked if he still drinks alcohol, Sid, who swims and runs up to six days a week, said: “Not really. Not so much now. I’m into my fitness.”

Sid had groupies at his beck and call in his  20s. He dated ex-EastEnders’ pal Nick Berry’s sister Amanda, and  later found himself single and playing the field.

He once had sex in a Tesco store’s loo with a girlfriend.

He admits: “There were (women throwing themselves at him).

“Amanda kept me on the straight and narrow.  But the times  I was single, I lapped it up.  Every bloke that’s single would do it.

“You do get that sense of insecurity of asking if someone is with me because I’m on TV or famous.

“Then you go through the other side and think, ‘Well, I don’t really give a s*** because I’m having fun  — so two can play at that game’.”

Born David Sutton  on January 12  1972  in then-working-class  Islington, North London, Sid was the youngest of four brothers by three different dads. 

As a chubby youngster, he became known as Steak and Kidney Sidney.

Mum Joan worked in pubs and a bingo hall, while dad, also David but known as Porky, was a violent drunk.

Aged five, Sid helped his brothers commit burglaries. Dubbed Spider-Man, he would climb roofs then shimmy through shop  skylights and open doors.

Sid also recalled the “ominous” feeling when his dad would return from the pub and beat up his mum and brothers.  The actor  blocked out much of his dad’s behaviour at the time.

Now, he says: “You just have pure hate for someone like that.”

His dad was eventually jailed for  “a heavy duty robbery” and Sid had no contact from the age of six.

When he became an  EastEnders regular, Porky  contacted him and arranged a meeting.

Sid thinks he just wanted money. He drove to the rendezvous point, glimpsed his dad then sped off.

He said: “I didn’t want  anything to do with him.” When Porky died, a relative contacted EastEnders  to ask if Sid wanted to go to the funeral. It was a firm “No”.

Mum  Joan, 35, died from cervical cancer  in November 1979 when Sid was just seven. His extended family thought he was too young to attend the funeral.

It left a little boy consumed by sorrow and seething with anger at being left alone.

Sid says writing the new book has helped him come to terms with his troubled past.

He said of his younger days: “You’re angry with yourself and so frustrated. So you ask, ‘Why me?’ and think, ‘Poor me’. It doesn’t get you anywhere. You’ve got to be strong and think positive.”

Beneath a tough, street kid exterior was a “scared” and “insecure” outsider who craved “affection”.

Sid was brought up by his maternal aunt  Carol Sullivan and her husband Michael.

He would wet the bed as he struggled to come to terms with losing his mum

He led a feral life on the streets,  stealing and experimenting with booze and cigs. Aged ten, he was arrested for breaking into a school and given a  police warning.

Discovering acting set him on the right path.  He said of joining EastEnders in 1988: “I was in awe of the others.

“Nick Berry (Simon Wicks) was the biggest star, the heart-throb. And he lived in Islington  as well.

“We became very  close, he was like the sensible elder brother that I wanted and needed.”

Sid has been less lucky in other aspects of his life.

Last year he was playing golf in Thailand when a ball knocked out six teeth and shattered his jaw.

He said he was lucky it didn’t kill him.  So far he’s had £20,000  of dental work with more to follow.

Sid says he’s not sick of people shouting “Rickaay” at him in the street, and believes he’ll return to the role.

He added: “It’s given me an incredibly good living and a privileged life. The doors have always been left open. So it’s just a matter of time. Who knows when?  Until they kill me off! That’s the only time I’m never going  back!”

His book is dedicated to  Joan and he said:  “I remember snippets of mum and try to hold on to the good memories.

“I came from nothing  then achieved fame with EastEnders. I wish  I could’ve supported mum, bought her a house, taken her on holidays. I wish she was here now.”

  • Order a copy of Sid’s book here.
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Sid was engaged to Carty Hubbard in 2000[/caption]

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Sid with ex fiance Polly Parsons[/caption]




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