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I’m worried I won’t be able to perform in bed because I watch too much porn


DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE been single for 18 months and I have been quite happy on my own.

But now that restrictions are easing up I would really like to meet someone and start a relationship – and even have fantastic sex.

I’m a 33-year-old male. The problem is I’ve been looking after myself for so long I’m worried I won’t be able to perform when I actually meet someone.

I watch porn every day – at least two or three times. I think I might have become addicted.

Over the past couple of weeks, I’ve been trying to wean myself off watching videos and replacing them with some pornographic magazines.

When I watch videos I orgasm within minutes. With the mags I last a bitlonger – but not much.

At this rate I’m going to be a real disappointment when I finally get together with someone.

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